It is ok not to forgiven someone, just don't let it consume you or turn into anger and bitterness. Forgiven yourself cause you did not know better!
Life is a gift, cherish it !
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Yeah... I listened to her a lot on youtube. She dealt with her own narcissist as a psychiatrist... that must have been also crazy... when you see and can diagnose a mother fucker and he still plays you like a violin. Horrible... horrible... I got used to narcissistic behaviour at the end you need to understand its only one side that gets affected and thats you. So I learned how not to get affected by them. Because Narcissist doesnt care much about anyone apart from themself.
Dont mirror the mirror. Mirror the deepest truths. And that one is that they dont care and neither should you.
I did manage to forgive all of them.... In the rarest occasions I am remembered of these people, I came to this place, that I only feel pitty.
I have no interest to reconnect or help or be of assistance. Stay over there, I stay over here.
I have no intension also of revenge. Healing was my revenge.
We all deal with it how it best suits us. And thats how we should. I am as much as you are I dont do revenge, I can still help but dont expect any thank you or whatsoever I helped for my benefit of feeling good about it and not for anyones thanks, but if they dont care for something and that is my side of the story I surely dont care of theirs either. If you have to represent a story in front of judges of 5 psychiatrist and 2 regular people. They will all know how to recognise a narcissist. They cant win in crowds that is why they find victims. But there is a way to be with them. Never allow yourself to be their victim be their sparing partners. Psychologically. You sharpen your sense and they enjoy the game. Ive grown up with heavy different types and forms of narcissists both female and male ones. Friends, family, partners... you just need to know how with them for the benefit of both, because in everything they do they seek benefit...and if you see some actual positive sides in their narcisism. They are very successful people at the end when you look at them. The biggest business people are narcissist, leaders and people of position.I learn a lot and developed my broader understanding of humanity by understanding and knowing how to deal with them... There're people like me who can co exist with them peacefully... lol ... but I get you... some people need to be left a fuck alone by them. We aint all the same. 🤷♀️
I mean some of them can. Some of them are such a huge narcissists... but when on the other side your opponent is dumb Kamala Harris... you still win crowds with your narcissism... but people who tend to be victims they get so eaten up in hating them that they dont see the benefits of those people and they are the ones at the end who get the shit done. And fire up some few countries for the benefit of 1. Its crazy... you know. Somehow there is stuff to learn from there... ah sorry I went deep 🥳✨️ it is one of my dear topics NARCISSISM. LOL
If I can, I rather have them away, overeeeeeeeeeer theeeeeeereeere, faaaaaaaaaaar awaaasaaaaaay lol.
I don't want no benefits whatshoever nor leaking my energy. Of course, in work place, we need to learn how to deal with them not to be taken advantage, be mishandled and abused.
Im a bit tough of a nut. Im like a diamond i dont crack under pressure it actually makes me tougher. Im that character... I still shine. They cant leak my energy. Its stronger then theirs millions of times. I had that proven in so many parts of my life. 🤣💀 im also another spectrum of crazy. Lol
You do you booooo ! 😆
Exactly 💯... yeah i just wanted to give that nod that some people can also deal with them without problems. Its often a misconception that they cant be dealt with for benefit of both sides. It did turn into me me me too much narcissistic talk you become one for a second. Sorry about that. I truly love psychology 😌 ☺️ its one of my big interests and fields of exploration thats why I tent to be a tad to passionate about... my bad 🤣🫣🥳🤷♀️✨️💀
I know what you mean. Some are easier to deal with, yes. The ones on the cluster B end...I rather totally avoid. NPDs are just litlle insecure childs. I don't want to damage them even further because you never know how easy is to mortify them.
Don't worry, I nailed it
Hehe.. I see. You 🪨 📃 ✂️ 🖖 🥰☺️
Wow, 🫠 this is a powerful read this morning. There’s a part in Atlas Shrugged that touches on the harm in forgiving someone—I will try and find it…
Yes to: letting the anger/hurt go, realizing you are growing, it’s okay to walk away, and melting into this beautiful life. 🪬
Amen❗️😌
