ladies: what are your thoughts about chivalry? is it something you commonly see? how do you feel when you observe a gentleman embodying chivalry?
would you feel comfortable with your guy extending it to other women? or do you prefer it exclusively for you?
#chivalry #asknostr
personally i'll take kindness and courtesy over chivalry.
i'd like to see my guy showing these attributes to everyone, as i hope to do myself 💜
interesting.
do you view acts of chivalry as largely performative?
i would consider them as kindness and courtesy, so i'm curious to understand your perspective.
thanks for answering, btw ^.^
it's more of an equality thing for me, i'd like to see more courtesy and kindness regardless of the gender of the recipient.
imo, i shouldn't be entitled to that just because of the way i was born 😹
yeah, i try to answer these, especially since there weren't any other replies yet 💜
ah, that makes sense. i can see the differences in our perspectives. :3
though, i will say, chivalry doesn't mean you should feel entitled to anyone's courtesy.
thanks again~! ^^
Common courtesy should just be common I mean when did that stop? Oh I remember something he told me always leave with the girl you brought the dance to something. His father had said and I was like OK weirdo whatever
chivalry is like a layer on top of common courtesy.
- walking a woman to her car
- offering to carry something for her
- standing up, introducing her first
- offering jacket
- not standing by if a woman is being harassed
- etc etc
I’m not even gonna respond to this this time because you know what my response was last time and it’s still true 🤣🤣🤣
this is very interesting topic. how should I phrase it?
hhhmmnm. I guess I am fortunate enough to be often at the receiving end of it. I am grateful for it. But I'd never expect it. The less I expect it the more often I receive it.
As for what I think of it. It is always a bliss to see kindness and bravery. But as a woman esp when travelling alone, I always have it at the back of my mind the "intent". Whether someone has a hidden agenda or pure kindness. As for my partner, it is basic traits of him. Therefore my man naturally kind towards others. I trust him enough to know that he is being kind vs being flirtatious.
But then again I am speaking from experience. ☺️
great take, and valuable insight~!
the words and actions may line up, but when the intention and energy behind them aren't pure, they lose integrity and cease to be chivalrous.
thanks for sharing, Lady Mae~! :3
OK, maybe I should write poetry about chivalry and what it even means when you’re both trained assassins 🤣🤣🤣
ladies: what are your thoughts about chivalry? It’s just always been normal for me to see & experience.
is it something you commonly see? Yes.
how do you feel when you observe a gentleman embodying chivalry?
Depends on my intuition
would you feel comfortable with your guy extending it to other women?
Yes. After trust is established long-term. Saying this as it can sometimes be misinterpreted. From everyone.
or do you prefer it exclusively for you?
No.
#chivalry #asknostr
