I'm quite familiar with Rand
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I'm not drawing a difference between the two and I think doing so gets into the word salad territory I mentioned. It always devolves into a pointless semantics argument. It doesn't matter for my points.
its helpful as shortcuts if people can agree on definitions.
the State is the monopoly on violence and extortion over a territory they don't own via property rights but make a claim on anyway.
a government is a collection of people who attempt to organize a community.
the former is by definition not something you can opt out of. the latter, depending on its design may allow exit if it respects private property.
what about that is word salad?
My definition is that used by Rand. I can clarify further if you want, but you said you're familiar. For me, early America almost got it right. We certainly did it the best and prospered for the most part as a result. As I said, not perfectly. But going back to extremely limited government and away from the admin state ideals would be my ideal place to start.