Men of nostr I need your input.
Say your wife had a mutual female friend that she had a falling out with and no longer likes. Is it appropriate to still be friends with this person?
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My advice would be to let that friendship fade away. "forsaking all others" etc. Your wife needs to know that she is #1 on a list of 1. Eliminate all doubt, let there be never be a question of where your loyalties lie.
If you two had a mutual male friend, and you and he had a falling out--what would you want her to do?
My 2 sats.
Thanks freeborn, this puts everything in perspective š¤
Depends how bad it is. If this friend did something really bad then you may not want to associate with that person because it could eventually hurt you. Also ask yourself how youād expect her to behave if the roles were flipped. Would you expect her to stop interacting with her?
Well itās bad enough where she doesnāt want to talk to her anymore. On my personal scale of bad itās like a 1-2 but my wife is really upset with her.
It sucks because the kids are friends and we all move around the same circle of people/friends. Softball world is tight community, where everyone knows everyone.
No. You should also refrain from having any female friends as married man, especially if you want her to not see other men.
True, would make life easier.
It's a complicated subject. For one thing your wife won't like it if you continue to be friends. On the other hand you have to worsen your relationship with someone you don't mind. All I can say is that if I don't like someone, I wouldn't forbid anyone from associating with them.
Yea she didnāt do anything to me so I feel bad but in the other hand my relationship with my wife is more important soā¦