For this it's important that the relay also let read and write for allowed people only.
Which relays software/code can currently do all of that?
For this it's important that the relay also let read and write for allowed people only.
Which relays software/code can currently do all of that?
For reading, unsure although perhaps strfry's policy plugin can do something?. But for writing you can whitelist npubs on strfry and nostr-rs-relay.