Maybe just wait. My zap came through. What wallet was she using?
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I see your Zap, so that confirms I'm setup. thanks.
She's using wallet of satoshi like I am. She sent about 30 min ago so idk I guess I will wait some more lol
That is not normal. I've never seen this. If she has made a payment and it settled, then I would go to the transaction, get its paument details and get the lightning invoice (there's usually a "pre-image" but it seems their wallet doesn't provide that???!)
Then try to get support from them here: https://support.walletofsatoshi.com/support/home
You are both fortunate that you both used the same service provider and unfortunate that you both used a custodial wallet.
My guess is that the payment system worked flawlessly but there was some issue at the service provider level.