Yeah, people thought my husband was "really young", to become a dad in his early 30s. But he's out there playing ⚽ with his son and nephews, and he's like, Yo... 50 is ancient. 😅

You have to think about how fit you are likely to be... later on. If you're a parent by 25, then you might be a grandparent by 50 and a great-grandparent by 75. If you start at 35, you have to add a decade to each following generation. More, really, as children tend to adopt the reproductive habits of their parents, so you'd be a parent at 35, grandparent at 70, then probably dead.

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that is so true

I'd like to make it happen before 30 but life's whack ya know. Never really had grandparents either. I have a friend who had children very young, and they had great-great grandparents for a couple years I believe. It took me a while to get over the jealousy XD

Before 30 has become hard, for men, because of the astronomical cost of living, but it's still easily doable, for women. Before 25 is easy.

what i'm noticing at the moment amongst my peers is the stronger female income (or projected income when schooling is completed etc) so they will always need to have dual income and It does seem to put pressure on delaying. Most peers say they have no interest at the moment, but I have a feeling once they get a little more settled, in a house, with most debt paid off they'll change their minds. Instincts hormones and shit XD

the most despicable aspect of the raising of time preference by interest on money... why it was forbidden in the Bible

Ironically, all of the women earning so much money is what causes the price of living to go up. 😂 Legit the root trigger for inflation, from back in the 70s, and they just keep doubling down.

Houses will cost what people can afford to pay for them.

*Cost what people can afford to finance* because they sure cannot afford to purchase XD

Well, yeah, the crazy financing is to stretch the dollars even thinner. They keep coming up with ways to keep the house prices up.

it's the demand side doubled, this is principally why the bankers funded suffragettes and getting women the vote and all that... to double their tax cattle base

people would not do this without being pushed and coerced and lured into it though

women are not hunters, engineers, builders or farmers, they are at best teachers, managers, nurses, artists... it's only PR that drives this nonsense about the upwardly mobile yuppie woman business nonsense, and it's completely illogical

it only continues because people can't put together enough money for a house anymore, it's got to the point where a substantial proportion of the population have given up on it altogether, and not only are they not buying houses they arent't getting married or having children, except for the women using it as a way to stay on welfare, and that was already a thing by the 70s

Yeah. A lot of the work women now do, used to be volunteer work, things they did for their families and neighbors, or was done by convents or other charities.

Everything got credentialized and professionalized, to inflate the cost, so that the government could skim taxes and state insurance payments off the top.

Mens' work tended to be stuff they did for strangers, so it was done in trade, which eventually led to payment with money.

For instance, if I clean my own house, and nurse the sick and elderly inside of it, and teach my children their 3Rs, and cook my own dinner, none of that is done in trade, so the value stays within the household. If I clean someone else's house, I get paid for it and the government takes 42% of the value. So, the person I clean for has to pay me that 42% more, to make it worthwhile for me to clean their house, rather than my own. In addition to the loss of value I have because I'm out of the house and can't perform my other duties, during this time. This inflates the cost of living. We pay more for everything, when strangers do it.

If my husband builds one electric gadget or dining room table, for his house, that's nice for us. If he builds another one, for the neighbor, in exchange for getting his car repaired, even nicer. But if he builds 5000 identical tables and sells them to people all over the planet, they will pay him in cash, and that money can then be used to purchase other goods and services that are highly specialized or that require unusual equipment or rare supplies, and therefore can't be efficiently produced in each household.

I appreciate this analysis :)

Because women tend to marry men who are older than them, I mean.

You would think owning lots of Bitcoin would cause people to have kids younger, but since they want to acquire more and don't want to spend it, they seem to delay childbearing even later than everyone else.

And the women hardly breed. They just talk about money, all day. They have wallet babies.😂

Maybe because we've lived though so much inflation, we continually feel the need to hodl?