also u have thicker skin, I'd say
there's some ppl who just are overly sensitive and take everything they read too serious
i was this overly sensitive person too when i first entered Twitter in '21
it's a big switch coming from only Instagram, and especially from anon circles which is mostly male
also have had zero problems here, it was actually 10x nicer and warmer than the circle i was in on twitter
initiatially i was like damn wtf y'all act too nice (sus) - rly had to adjust to that 😂