What’s a man's idea of a good first date? Location, activity and duration? 🧐
Discussion
I think this might have sounded dirty, I really didn't mean for it to 😅 just wholesome stuff
Connection & the ability to be yourself easily, just a wild guess💜
That's lovely 😊🤙
Simplicity a restaurant where you can hear each other thats it
At a steakhouse. 🤣
If a guy took me to a steakhouse that would be hilarious 😂 borderline best date cos I'm a vegetarian. I find it really sweet when things go wrong though 🥹. And i'm sure other ladies on here would love this 🤙
A steakhouse always has a salad buffet, a vegan restaurant will never have a carnivore option. 🤣
I'd stay either way 😂 and salad sounds good too 😍 yeah that's true, that's not fair 🤔
If you dont know the person, then café + walk, or outdoor festival, generally something uncomplicated where you can have a conversation.
If you know them already, there are more options...
Oo I like this! I think the perfect first date is walk by the river at sunset and just talking 🤙 no fancy stuff, just two people figuring out if you click even when things are simple and could easily be boring. If you can make it fun without any props or distractions you've got gold👌or Bitcoin 😂🙏 whichever you prefer
Somewhere with alcohol (facilitates conversation and alleviates nerves )
Somewhere that provides a mutual focus so that there isn't laser focus on one person or pressure to keep the ball in the air. (So a bowling alley for example , not a bar or a restraunt )
Somewhere with good lightning , you both want to get a good look at each other.
Do something you would normally enjoy doing , you will act more naturally.
Don't go somewhere where other people are likely to move in on you like a nightclub busy bar or something, it will make him territorial.
That's the best tips I got.
Thanks Séimi, these are some good suggestions, I love it! I used to be so afraid of them looking at me on dates and eye contact used to terrify me 😂 now it's nice, exciting even 🤙
The 'you both want to get a look at each other' made me laugh haha good point though, need to see what you might be getting into 🙏
Bowling sounds fun, and mini golf too that's a popular one at the moment 👌. Ahh nightclubs, I've never been to a nightclub haha but I agree, my voice is too soft and anywhere I have to scream to talk is stress 🥹.
Anywhere you can have a good conversation; dinner, coffee, etc. The length just depends if you vibbin, some are long but some are very short lol
Interesting answers 🤔😂
Meet an an Art gallery 2/3 hours then walk through London - grab a bite - put her on her tube home.
Call me old fashioned but I’d thoroughly enjoy myself too 😂
What about you ladies ?