Maybe a controversial take but I don't think apps should be using the nip-65 relay list as the "app relays"
Its supposed to be used as an inbox/outbox or a way for others to find your notes
Trying Amethyst, first thing I see is a crippled view of my network
It gives me 2 default relays I never heard of, totally ignoring my relay metadata. nostr:npub1gcxzte5zlkncx26j68ez60fzkvtkm9e0vrwdcvsjakxf9mu9qewqlfnj5z is it just me or nip 65 is not supported?
Then when I try to add a few of my known relays I'm asked to sign a kind 3 (which I refuse to do as there's a chance it will lose my contacts)
Discussion
I agree, I should be seeing a bunch of relays from my contacts' NIP-65s . I probably conflated things here, but in any case my own outbox relay set is better than the 2 random relays Amethyst suggested and that can't be changed without signing a kind 3 (which I'm obviously not confident to sign)