Trying Amethyst, first thing I see is a crippled view of my network

It gives me 2 default relays I never heard of, totally ignoring my relay metadata. nostr:npub1gcxzte5zlkncx26j68ez60fzkvtkm9e0vrwdcvsjakxf9mu9qewqlfnj5z is it just me or nip 65 is not supported?

Then when I try to add a few of my known relays I'm asked to sign a kind 3 (which I refuse to do as there's a chance it will lose my contacts)