it's definitely a vibe thing.
Wifey can be both depending on the day. a little emotional intelligence goes a long way in helping a gentleman determine what kind of energy he needs to bring.
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I agree. It's why in person communication is better at the beginning. We can get a sense of what each other wants better that way ❤️
yeah, Wifey and i did a lot of texting, and still do. but you can get the vibe from texts, imo.
and if you specifically mentioned that he not do that, it's a bad sign. a lack of impulse control, emotional maturity, or even general respect.
Yea 💯 that
I also check to see how they react to being wrong or me saying no in the first date, and he didn't pass the test. Which isn't in itself a deal breaker but along with other things not great.