Right but we need to compare similar circumstances. High school isn’t life or death like it is for lotf.

And yes you’re right women will lose their friends over a guy but men don’t lose their friends in the same way. Men neglect their friendships rather than walking away or ending it. It’s common for guys to catch up with a friend after multiple years of not talking like as if nothing happened. This is what I mean by men sabotaging themselves. They sacrifice good experiences with their friends.

Women tend to have more fallouts with their friends. Guys tend to just drift apart over time as they stop prioritizing their social lives.

Again, these are just general statements. They don’t apply to ALL people of a specific gender. There are exceptions for sure. Men have fallouts and do sabotage each other sometimes. But most of the time, men are their own worst enemies.