These are all great, and I'm not gonna lie, I pretty much have focused on these too, along with my career in software and other things.

Like, I've done martial arts for a while, but I could still stand to be in way better shape, so eating right, fasting mode often, and lifting are things I want to really do well this year. Eating better is the hardest thing because "better" for me now is what I thought was bad growing up.

Harder than being a people pleaser tbh. A couple years ago I had my whole social life irl melt down to the upside and got left with significantly fewer people to please and fewer reasons to please them. It was really a blessing. I'm not saying to burn down your life, but man, there are people out there who are so weak and sensitive that pleasing them is just a way to control you.

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It’s nice to know I’m not the only one working toward improving myself 😊

Eating better

Sleeping better

Brain food and moving better

There is merit in cutting down on the drain to your personal bandwidth by having fewer people or fewer reasons to please people. You make a good point here. I have divested myself (mostly) of the manipulative ones and cut down my friend group to the good ones. Personally it’s still a big goal to people please less this year. 🙀

I’m grateful that you shared your thoughts, thank you 🙏🏽

Definitely joining the next “31 exercise things” challenge with you 🎈🎈

At least online (maybe even irl 🫣), hit em with the

😂

Tee hee!! There are some I’d love to!

You’ve made it really pretty 😁 who can be upset with a purple GFY? 🤣🤣



That was Dawn's creation actually 😂🤣

Also what are these obj things? Is it some iOS thing I'm too android to understand?

Oh sorry! I made some stickers of this cat doing a karate kick but it obviously doesn’t work outside of this phone. Back to the drawing board!

Thanks Dawn you legend! I can now tell people to bugger off in style 😂

Lool

Well, the GFY is from this emoji pack. I love it, works best on amethyst because you can start typing in :gfy and actually just paste the image link.

nostr:naddr1qqgxummnw3ezqetnwdjkuarfv9k8xqg3waehxw309ahx7um5wgh8w6twv5hsygxzxrkaxn99eqcchaze9tq9dn0rw5va89wqjpxr06suv59c4498zgpsgqqqw48qz4m6pp

I really like Android, not a fan of apple 🍎

Hell yeah 🔥🤖

Man, I wish the little android guy was an emoji. I'd have to make a custom one 🤔