Why do so many women have the hots for Pedro Pascal? Well, since you asked, I’ll type up a big long explanation for you! 😉

First: I recently read this book called Come As You Are. It’s about human sexuality and I highly recommend it. The book describes libido not as one thing, but as having two components, the gas and the breaks.

I think women tend to have more sensitive breaks, this being mostly for biological reason. Women suffer the consequences of sex, pregnancy. Having sensitive breaks is a necessary survival skill. But it’s a burden, and it sucks.

Now we have quality female controlled birth control, but still in the modern world there are SO many things that hit the breaks. For example, men that give lectures on how women need to “submit” to them. Men that think “protection” = control. Men who praise other men who say “your body my choice”. All of that stuff hits the breaks, hard. And it’s so prevalent that you have be constantly on guard for it. Constantly hitting the breaks.

Pedro Pascal does none of the things that hit the breaks. And sure he’s a good looking, fit dude. But he’s not THAT good looking, what he is, is safe.

I don’t know the dude, I have no idea what he’s actually like, but I know how he presents, or is presented. He presents as someone who would actually protect. He presents as someone you could go to if you had been assaulted or harassed and he would believe you, and help you. He presents as someone who would respect, with out questions, your clearly stated boundaries… the first time you stated them! Wow, just wow. (And how sad that is so rare)

So in short, Pedro hit’s the brakes so very, very little that looking at him is like a car rolling down hill, going faster and faster as there are no brakes to slow the roll.