Exactly - if people who generally avoid women like us are targets whenever we go out, then a man who is in any way publicly visible will not avoid it. It's just a matter of time. Even one of my instructors, a former professional who was MGTOW, got poached and is getting married for the first time in his mid-40s. Just FYI a senior instructor with a big clientele can make 6 figures - I even know a guy in his 20s who is doing that. Maybe even 7 figures if they're really good (like championship-level) or live in a place like NYC.
As for marrying and having kids, I'm not looking forward to the former, but I might do the latter. It just depends on what happens in the next few years. But just from demographic trends alone there are going to be a lot of childless people and a further depopulation of white people, so if that happens to you statistically it seems more like a collective problem than some kind of personal failing (although people will ALWAYS interpret it that way).