Nostr Web Client

even so, if you want kids do not allow my comments to dissuade you from treading the beaten path. i don't want you coming back when you're 80 and in a nursing home and nobody comes to visit you because you never had any kids and blaming me for this.

and reality is if you aren't married it simply means you're not rich enough. if you are loaded with cash you won't be able to avoid it. women simply will not allow you to go single. because there is over a billion of them and they are all looking for a man with money to marry and your odds of fighting them off are zero.

even i almost succumbed but in my case it was my crush from when i was 14 trying to marry me for US citizenship, rather than for money. luckily she was still as much of a bitch when she tried this in our 20s as she was when we were in early teens so that helped me to say no.

but regardless it isn't really your choice whether you get married or not. it's just a question of whether you have something to offer to women or not. if you don't you won't be able to get a woman to marry you and if you do you won't be able to fight women off in the long run.

nostr:nevent1qvzqqqqqqypzp8pwp2rsgymh8ju3twwfe5hpe0ghu5aw9v9gd2a9uklslsfuggxjqyt8wumn8ghj7un9d3shjtnddaehgu3wwp6kytcpz4mhxue69uhhyetvv9ujuerpd46hxtnfduhsqgx0m3fqc4shcrfke8dd2p4vkhnw04kd3hqhrn8f7ghssqajfser75p5q0m0

nostr:npub1xy60n57p02ugl743zfag2ljftxh4s0ufpzu0wsmhdvng7hj5c0vqvx8w7v

nostr:npub1sglevphkxd3nqjek3tz3hrx9fvtg0v3g9exuyk3wggtusw8gn0ys8rseau

Reply to this note

Please Login to reply.

Discussion

Prince Aleph 5mo ago

Exactly - if people who generally avoid women like us are targets whenever we go out, then a man who is in any way publicly visible will not avoid it. It's just a matter of time. Even one of my instructors, a former professional who was MGTOW, got poached and is getting married for the first time in his mid-40s. Just FYI a senior instructor with a big clientele can make 6 figures - I even know a guy in his 20s who is doing that. Maybe even 7 figures if they're really good (like championship-level) or live in a place like NYC.

As for marrying and having kids, I'm not looking forward to the former, but I might do the latter. It just depends on what happens in the next few years. But just from demographic trends alone there are going to be a lot of childless people and a further depopulation of white people, so if that happens to you statistically it seems more like a collective problem than some kind of personal failing (although people will ALWAYS interpret it that way).

Dissident Sound 5mo ago

it's getting harder for men to start a family because family was traditionally an institution through which men funded women ...

but today that institution is the state. men do real work ( like construction jobs ) and women do fake jobs ( pushing papers at the DMV or welfare office ) and through the miracle of taxation money is transferred from men to women without them even having to spread their legs for the man whose money they are taking.

with women being heavily subsidized by the state a man with only an average income has nothing to offer to a woman. you must make substantially more than what a woman makes at her fake paper pusher job in order for her to be interested.

so whereas in the past marriage was for everybody now it is only for the top performing men who can offer a meaningful upgrade in lifestyle to a woman.