Why does outgrowing someone feel so shitty, am I the monster

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Feel this to my bones 🦴 rn

Smh 🤦🏻‍♀️

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The answer is no.

You rite, I just feel so guilty

I understand. It’s saddening and unfortunate.

I’m like this with most people in my life as well as my past partners.

Do you feel attached emotionally or pressured to stay friends?

Ye

No not at all, the right choice is often the more difficult one. If it feels easy then it's probably the wrong choice. Sometimes we can make the hard choice, other times it's made for us.

I've been experiencing this recently and it reminds me that I can't bring everyone with me where I'm going. Growing doesn't make you a monster, especially when it's for the better

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Because you’re not a sociopath, you feel compassion for the person. Because you’re sane, you inherently understand that you must move on, the friction is uncomfortable, but it’s also like sanding your soul. The result is a smoother surface.

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We're all monsters. You're trying to survive. If you're sad you can't help someone, at least you care.

You most certainly are not! We are all in an ever changing state of growth. If you aren’t growing or changing you’re dying. 🫂 💜

Truuuuuuu