not saying being overly obese is okay, but some people think women are disgusting if they aren’t anorexic.

my weight fluctuates like crazy, and the way i’m treated when i’m not at my skinniest is ridiculous. nostr:note1zrs3ul7lag56pmylp3dslhd4csrtd2nxcznxyn22jd0xmajsvfgq3ewv68

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Too skinny is a huge turn off. I'll say "bitch needs a burger"

Nothing the matter at all

We have been programmed to believe beauty looks a certain way. When I was a young man, I had no idea what I was actually attcarted to. Only programming. Men like all kinds of women.

I never knew that making eye contact and saying hello to a guy is all it takes for them to think you’re interested/ flirting until I gained some weight. He was horrified. We were at the dog park and I was just making small talk while our dogs played. Super benign on my part.

Honestly kind of liked that period because I could exist in the world without feeling like a sexual object.

so true about the sexual object. fuck that dude. let’s get married

😘 Then we’ll just be sexualized as a couple until we’re deemed too old for most dudes to find us fuckable.

You do seem like you’d be an incredible wife!

All that matters is how you feel about yourself and your not sacrificing health for looks

🫂😢

Ice cream is a weapon of self-defense 🙅‍♀️

as someone who’s struggled with body dysmorphia in the past, pregnancy has been a fascinating experience.

things I used to obsess over I’ve learned to let go, the human body really is incredible.

I loved being pregnant 🥰enjoy it ☺️

People are mad! Live healthy people but watching your weight with a scale every damn day is creepy and sick af