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Never date a woman that has a cat.
Never date a woman that has more than one dog.
Never date a woman that is older than you.
Never date a woman that makes more money than you.
Never date a woman that has a history of exhibitionism.
Never date a woman that smokes or does drugs, even if you do.
Never date a woman that has seriously dated guys you find repulsive (better to have never seriously dated anyone.)
Never date a woman that goes both ways.
Never date a woman that has kids or has been married (unless you do also)
Never date a woman that has tattoos or piercings anywhere other than her ears. Two holes in each ear is pushing it.
Never date a woman that is out to compete with men.
Never date a woman that doesen't have good hygene.
Never date a woman outside your race.
Never date a woman from a religion you yourself would never consider joining on your own.
Never date a woman that doesen't share your values for education.
Never date a woman that would be jealous of your ability to earn wealth.
I've made all these mistakes, and more, but my wife passes all the tests.
The one about her dating dudes you find repulsive is especially bad. Especially when you meet some of them. Scumbags! All of 'em!
Never dated a seriously religious woman.
Religious women have another whole different spectrum of red flags, like being too controlling, but an intelligent woman will overcome that.
I'm an atheist. So, I try to avoid religious women, tbh. They're exhausting. Think they're right about almost everything. I'm not getting into this topic. Sorry, nostr:npub1qfkcklnmes45z75y7y8dkud5yll8vp5eq5ysk9rmgqdxeasv8unsrfj6kq
I have briefly dated a woman who had two kids. I get why she's single. LOL!!! Out of all the women I've dated she's definitely in the Top 5 on the Crazies List.
yet you keep engaging with her. that is the fundamental problem. most atheists are just got phobias from authoritarian christians.
it's not christian to be authoritarian so what does that make them?
Full of hate
nostr:npub1c856kwjk524kef97hazw5e9jlkjq4333r6yxh2rtgefpd894ddpsmq6lkc speaks the truth!
The hypocrisy of “christians” to be killing in your name.
Thou shall not.
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You created god in the perfektion of your own self image. 
yet you still give them the gift of your time. why?
I have alot of free time. Retired 32 year old. Lives alone. All his friends don't get out of work till around 5 p.m., then they need to commute back. That takes anywhere from 45 mins to an hour. Depends on traffic. They're always beat when they get back. I really only have time to hang on the weekends.
i am full of hate too. there is nothing wrong with hating evil, and doubly so when the world is so full of it that it's unbearable to look at, smell, even just to hear it through closed doors.
but what i hate the most is stupidity and brainwashing. those are the things that authoritarianism represents.
nothing wrong with hating what is wrong. that keeps you from stepping in shit.
We weren't saying that. I have nothing against Christians or any religion, tbh. I'm talking about religious followers who feel like it's their duty to kill anyone who doesn't abide by their beliefs.
they are cultists and drones, they are not authentic human beings, their entire minds are caged in false associations with traumatic pain that makes them unable to think.
if anything they deserve pity but the more you let them spend your time the more confused you are gonna get.
I agree. Are you saying Stella is a cultist?
i'm not teh only one who thinks that.
I think anyone who is in a religion is a cultist to a degree, tbh. Why do you think I'm such a staunch atheist? It's impossible to avoid religious people, at this point. Doesn't mean I have to follow their beliefs.
what if i told you that angels were advanced humans and christianity, and all the religions, are cargo cults?
you know what a cargo cult is?
also, if the humans in question have mastered gravity and telepathy and teleportation, and maybe even seeing the future... then it may well be that they know about this problem of evil and are gonna show up, as they promised, and hold a full court day on the matter and put them all in the pit of a volcano.
this is why i think there has been this whole "nobody is coming to help us" meme going hard lately, because actually, they definitely are.
these are our great great great great ... great great ... great great grandpappies and grandmammies we are talking about. they will come for us.
i know that sounds crazy but that's the only rational way to explain all the evidence i have seen.
You're right. It does sound crazy. Which is why I refuse to believe it.
I've seen the lake of fire. Its not a volcano, its not on Earth and its horrid. I don't know what to say about timetraveling advanced humans, its certainly a possibility, but it still doesen't satisfy the first-mover theorem and I refuse to believe we exist because of an infinite regress. I have direct personal evidence of God at this point but I don't pretend to understand how he 'works'. I do expect we will be told when its acceptable.
This is too funny!!! 🤣 bro, you gotta relax!
also just to be precise, the great majority of people are cultists of some cult.
since the inception of the CIA, the art of inducing people into cultist mentality, called "mind control" has reached the level of fine art. very few people are able to see it, and even i was not fully clear on it because i didn't understand the mechanisms.
one day, after i got fired from a job where the interview involved being "love bombed", i started researching cult busting info, and learned a lot of things that you must know in order to not get caught in the sticky mind traps that are everywhere nowadays. they are part of how they kep people trapped doom scrolling their phones and all those things. mind control through websites... it's a real thing. i first started to notice this with the steemit.com forum. the name 'steemit' itself is a trigger word.
I know about all this. Since I quit my job it's opened my eyes to this. That was three years ago.
Hate the sin not the sinner
the sinner shall also be hated until they repent. they should not be dealt with while their sin prevents them from honoring their contracts too.
some people can be sinners and yet honor their contracts, these people can be trusted as far as the business but not where they err.
The sinner can be hated by God, but we are to forgive. We only don't carouse with sinners... birds of a feather.
I was a staunch atheist for many years, from 5 to about 28. I agreed with Robert Ingersoll and others. Didn't see the light until my late 20s. Started out academically reading the bible on my own, simply to see what all the hubbub was about. I learned respect for Jesus, but not necessarily his theology. Then I started talking about the bible with people that believed. Then I started experiencing miracles in the form of dreams of real events that I would later see with my own eyes. That opened my mind to the possibility we are more than we can percieve. From there picking a religion seemed arbitrary, but monotheism seemed logical (first mover principal.) I went down a few christian religion roads, but landed on what I percieve to be the most pure form. Its nothing you've heard of, and most religions would consider it radical and heretical. Jesse Lee Peterson is the only public figure I know of that holds similar theological views (I learned of him many years after adopting my views.)
This needs to get fixed, Gary. Being an atheist is dumb.
It isn't.
Yes, it is. It's also nihilistic, doomy, and not even cool for angsty, mad-at-the-world emo teens. Grow up.
Lol. It isn't. It's what I choose. Just because I'm an atheist doesn't mean I think the world is gonna end.
It is. One of these days you'll figure that out.
Lol being a christian means you think the world is going to end.
idk, there is a stream of christianity that hates on prophecy because of apocalyptic cults.
also, being an atheist DOES mean you think the world is going to end, because one of the articles of faith of atheists is the eventual heat death and utter decadence of the universe in total entropy. of course there is some who don't follow the doctrine of big bang/heat death but most do.
i see no evidence for said entropy ratio to ever change, neither has it changed in the past that we have been able to see anywhere, nor do i expect it changes anywhere in the future.
what is hilarious about atheists is that they think they don't have a belief system, and that they can disregard the intangible in their thinking. it's one of the pleasures of seeing their surprise every time quantum physics proves this wrong.
My wife has a cat, is of a different race, has a (discreet and regretted) tattoo, was once of a religion I wouldn't join. And makes more $$$ than me!
5 years and a few days married, 9 and a half together in total.
The only two on your list that would scare me are exhibitionism and competitive with men. :-p
Competition with men I can't even avoid. They try and compete with me. Really annoying. 🤷♂️
Story of every Western guy, GenY or GenZ! If we want feminine we have to date immigrants (90% of the time anyway).
I wouldn't say 90% but it is ALOT! No doubt!
Its interesting who Trump married. He still stayed mostly in his own race.
This whole mleku situation is just too much! 😅🤷♂️
This whole transgender shit has fucked so much up.
And the funny thing is that it’s flawed deviant sciences to blame on for that when deviance argues life being a versus game. Then which type of deviance that is, we don’t need to get into.
Life is a created when the genders come together.
Its foreign counterintelligence intended to destroy our fertility, so we will be weak and less competitive. The west doesn't protect its women, they are completely exposed, and its because of sexism (of the radical feminist strain.) Now "feminism" is turning our women masculine, its not surprising. Feminity can only fluorish under the protection of masculinity.
What is truly amazing is I never would have seen my wife until I made the list.
Nobody is irredeemable. My list is a list of risks, ones guys don't need to take. I'd gladly marry a 7 over a 9 with anything on my list.
I made the mistake of dating a woman with several dogs, and she was a nutjob; it blew up in my face.
Whats the issue with a cat tho?
Cats are a signal the woman won't reproduce. Its also extremely unhealthy.
Never heard that one before.
Is there an "approved pet list" somewhere?
Single women shouldn't be nesting with animals in her house as replacement children. Having animals FOR the children, thats a different story. Animals are for utility, like hunting, herding and catching mice. If she is a farmer and cares for the chickens, thats a different story as long as she isn't living in the chicken coop herself.
I agree that anything more than one typical pet (cat, dog) is a sign of the owner compensating for something.
Lol, I was just about to finish writing a response to your decent points here and Amethyst wiped my post and reloaded. 😤
Lets try it again.
Ive gotten in the habit of writing long posts in a grammar checker app because amathyst barfs if you edit for too long nostr:npub1gcxzte5zlkncx26j68ez60fzkvtkm9e0vrwdcvsjakxf9mu9qewqlfnj5z
Okay then. My comments/additions to Brun's decent considerations:
* Tattoos are called tramp stamps for a reason, and anything more than a few, discrete, actually decorative or cute ones is an indication of poor impulse control or rebellion against the parents (aka "Daddy Issues").
* Anything more than one of the regular pets (cat, dog) is an indication of compensation for lack of being able to stay in a stable relationship. "Red wine and pet snacks for Friday evenings" is a meme for a reason.
* Regular AND excessive use of intoxicants is a red flag in all people. Excessive alcohol use is strongly correlated with increased incidence of domestic violence (both ways).
* Women spending too much time on social media are bound to get a lot of bad ideas from her 'circles and friends' there, and are prone to erroneous meme-pop-psych explanations for things. When relationship tensions happen (as they undoubtedly will for all people), she will certainly seek out reinforcement of her ideas there, and it will be garbage that gets dragged back onto your living room carpet. That women offer shit relationship advice is a fact not limited to when it's offered to men; high SoMe use is a red flag, especially for Twitter, Instagram and Tiktok.
* Women that reach 30 yoa without having given birth, are childless for a reason (unwilling to commit to a partner, unstable and/or disagreeable personality). (If they're capable of conceiving, it's said that they get the "Baby Rabies" 😂).
* Consistently very outspoken about her (usually boilerplate leftist) political views? Red flag.
* You are not the therapist to your date or SO, and you should not attempt to be so, other than having an occasional proper talk about necessary subjects when friction or issues arise, as a supportive close friend or future mate. Trying to be the therapist turns you into a therapist and will certainly damage your relationship, even if you have very good intrapersonal intelligence and skills. If you sense that she has unhandled personal issues, it's up to her to recognize this and take the initiative to get them handled from proper professionals, not by leaning on you to be her unpaid psychologist.
* There are ofc exceptions to most things, as we all have different backgrounds and tempraments; Be aware of the warning signs and use your own best judgement.
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