Insane take. People change. You could be with someone for 20 years and they become a shell of who they once were.. so what, you’re trapped forever. Fucking dumb.
Discussion
Then don't get married? Marriage means forever. It doesn't mean when I don't like the other person like I used to. Through sickness and health. Sounds more like to me you don't know wtf marriage means. Again, no one's making anyone get married.
People do change, and when you're married, you have to deal with that. You have to work through that together. To give up is to reneg on your life long commitment. ie , you should have never made that commitment in the first place.
How old are you?
Why does that matter?
Cause it’s a juvenile take
What juvinile is not understanding what a commitment is and being okay with breaking your promises. Responsible people don't break promises.
I'm 32, happily married for a decade, only married once with 2 children. I'm not the oldest man in the world but I've been around the block and I've had my fair share of experiences with divorce on my family's life (mom, step dad, both aunts all divorced, my mom and step dad multiple times before they met.) Ie also had my fair share of my own marrital struggles but the only thing I love more than nostr:nprofile1qqsfg2spq35fak0xfwjn5lfumpn59h0ka4n8n3yux3d9fnlegyq9pxspz4mhxue69uhhyetvv9ujuerpd46hxtnfduhszyrhwden5te0dehhxarj9ekk7mf0qydhwumn8ghj7amgv4shgtngv9c8q7t5v9mx2unw9e3k7tc04jwwg are my 2 children.
I'm not the wisest man on the planet, but I'm not juvinile and I'm not niaeve.
You are happy in your situation so you want to parade around and say dumb shit like it should be illegal to get divorced. I hope your marriage works, I hope you 2 stay together forever and grow together. But it’s a choice.
People change and that is between them how to handle it. Leave the govt or whoever you think will handle the legality of a marriage out of it.
It's a choice to get married. It shouldn't be to get divorced. Just like it's a choice to have sex but it's not a choice when a girl gets pregnant.
My opinion on divorce is not tied to my personal life. It's tied to what the word marriage means. It means forever. If you're not okay with forever, don't get married. It would prevent a lot of problems in society at large.
Ok. Good luck on your path