why did i suddenly hear very clearly:
pay steve back?
Discussion
who?
which steve
know several
just met another one at pubkey
did ~i~ fuck up anyone's life?
no.
if people tell me things
unsolicited without saying
=> gil this is a secret please tell no one
like first of all,
why am i your secret dumping ground
am i wearing a sign that says:
give me your secret burdens like i am a swiss bank
????????
so first of all: Selfish
second of all: not my fault, not my problem for merely delivering mail on drama that is not mine to hold, mine to carry, about me, or about my choices
this literally goes back to
the cultural convo of
a girl gets raped
& if she tells anyone about it
the crime is that by speaking she is gonna ruin his life
is the crime speaking honestly about lived experience
or is the crime rape