It is totally weird! And I was actually thinking about that earlier. I think the toxic feminism states that women should not follow men or be “submissive” and if they are, then they don’t believe in feminism. To me that doesn’t make any sense. I’m a feminist but that means there’s equality for all, it’s not about women gaining the power and control in society. Feminism (the not toxic kind) allows me to make whatever choice I want in relationships, whether that’s being the masculine or feminine, or both. I can totally understand how men are frustrated dating some women.