This whole back and forth is so stupid. Super is lying by omission and it's more nuanced than hes presenting it.
The first 3 points are undeterministic edge cases that only apply to senders.
Receipients are unlinkable to the original address and only appear on the blockchain once meaning they could be any Monero user that exists.
Amounts are completely hidden - hes being purposely ambiguous referring to miner fees.
Addtionally, because of it's complexity, how many are using Lightning the way maybe you and Super use it? Almost all of them are using custodial lightning wallets with no privacy from the custodian, hackers, and any governments that compels them to save and give them that info.