Hashing it out in public is how we find the truth. Sometimes it devolves into bickering and egos (guilty of this too sometimes) but it's just part of the process. I've learned a lot and changed some of my views over time thanks to these public conversations.

Maybe we just see it more because it's Bitcoiners and Monerbros on Nostr mostly. I think in reality most users don't mind either coin even if they don't use it personally.