we need this concept

there is ‘forbearance’ of course—which implies one doesn’t reply in the end, but something both timeless and philosophically or humorously specific to the internet might be better—and let’s face it, sometimes yer gonna reply (e.g. xkcd’s Duty Calls) nostr:note1a0n2d7fx77spty5qrvttsnjl7r4ty5qyhdgzmwljecy6ukm45ajqn7pgu6