Seriously though… who do you trust? Cannot ask for help to a person you do not trust, can you? Trust noone, never ask for help? Is that the only answer? nostr:note1ajea25hx9evazgajxke4c9xkwxs32qux0sfgzzp02epagwrzp8hqwsams8
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to ask for help you have to be in a vulnerable position not a position of trust . then hope it goes well. asking for help is hard
« Then hope it goes well » no, thank you. Too risky
that’s the hard part ! asking those you “trust” could turn out worse as well
In the last 5 years most of my attempts only lead to more problems and more suffering. My CPTSD has exploded ever since.
have you identified the triggers?
Narcissistic abuse. The fire I was forged in…
I understand. Have you considered therapy? plus I think you can find a great support system here on nostr with new friends.
Considered? Attended for 2 years now. Nostr made me feel better, then it made me feel worse. Trying differently this time…
Anyway, thanks for the chat
Oh no! How nostr do that? 😔 but i sort of do get it a little- i was hit with some sadness seeing what life is like in the rest of the world - but i stopped comparing- comparison is a thief of joy — also this is the second second chance, keep ya head up !
https://open.spotify.com/track/6MtStOzbbrBAEJUgLeYkIg?si=-4CTVxpDQfOlw3lhyljY-g
I trust my joudgement on who to trust. You're one of them. I also trust my 3 closest friends
What makes you think I can be trusted? Not that I don’t agree. Curious to know why…
Spending time with you gave me this so called feeling, or intuition, or subconscious process, whatever you want to call it.
I trust closest friends and family that they give me their opinion. Its going to be biased of course but at least honest.
I cannot trust those.
I trust that they honest (to a point) not that they right. I dont even trust myself to be right 😂
I cannot trust that they are honest. I can trust they will manipulate, gaslight, injure, abuse…
Your friends?
Don’t have any. I thought I had a couple but I was wrong… my ex was able to manipulate them against me a bit too easily. The so called friends turned into flying monkeys, turned into abusers. ( like inviting me to a party only to unleash on me…)
The don't trust verify is BS anyway,
unless you have the capability to understand the btccode yourself you'll have to trust the commons of devs to do so
Without trust there's no society. I trust Bitcoin to produce a block ~every ten minutes, I trust my pilot to know how to operate the plane, my doctor...
The point I'm trying to make is, you need to trust based on competence or verifiable track record, not just trust trust because they're people.
(... not just trust blindly)
I trust my family. They have earned by proving that they always have my back. In good times and bad. Love to love.