It’s not tho. Setting a house on fire is destroying the house. Consuming the house by living it is not destruction.
Destruction implies that the good is rendered unable to provide value to the owner. I can use (consume) a house for a decade and then sell it to someone else that can continue to consume it. This is not true if I destroy the house.
Maybe this is more so the case for perishable goods like food, but even then I would draw a distinction. When milk or butter is recalled by Costco and they have to destroy the product, this is not the same as people consuming the milk or butter. Destruction is wasted or lost value while consumption is delivers value and fulfills a human need/want.