You guys still donβt understand what Iβm saying, nor did you properly read what I wrote. I wasnβt even disagreeing with you - but I donβt have time, nor do I care to fully explain it over and over, sorry π«
Who cares what I think anyway, Iβm just a women. Iβm wrong. Not like I know anything about how some women on this earth like to communicate or what makes SOME of us feel special. INCONCEIVABLE.
I couldnβt possibly know what true love is, without you telling me. Itβs not like everything I do is motivated by love. I mean, sure I have had hand written love letters and poems exchanged for almost 3 years with an old boyfriend I loved and who loved me, who actually read way more poetry than me. But other than him, no other man on this planet would do that, right? There are no men on nostr who have ever written poetry for someone they loved, thatβs for sure, because every guy in the world is the same. Fact. Would be a waste of time, theyβd never do it.
Despite what my old friend Joe (whoβs in a 14 year relationship) used to tell me, compromise isnβt key, itβs all about how you want to express love and receive it, the other person be damned.
Like, imagine if music was poetry and musicians wrote songs about people they loved or heartbreak? Nobody has time for that, and who would even want to listen to it? I think women would hate love songs. It would be so unrelatable and make no money. Nobody would memorise the lyrics and itβs got no future. Hope they never do it.
Love poems are only 4000 years old too, fucking Hollywood trying to brainwash us even back then. And of course you know me really well, how I express love and like love expressed back to me. How I was first introduced to love - early teens reading some asshole named Shakespeare, this lady called Jane Austen and some bloke named Ernest Hemingway. I know, they sound like a right bunch of tossers, honestly. They obviously know nothing about love. Nobody has ever resonated with and related to their writing.
Itβs always been a conspiracy by centralised media to get us to sit down and use our naturally creative human brains - can you believe it? Those bastards. Why would we want to tell someone in a creative way how much you love them? All humans communicate and express love the same way, right? There is no other love language, but the practical (though lovely) serious foundational love language. Passion, fun and romance is overrated. Butterflies feel awful anyway.
You didnβt hear it from me, but I heard Lord Byron used a female ghost writer. Heβs a man! Men donβt talk about love. INCONCEIVABLE. Bloody Hollywood, eh. You guys know best so Iβll let you carry on.
Youβre right, I will never find a man that would write me poetry, again. I love being misunderstood and loved how condescending your note was, it really highlighted how well you guys communicate. Iβm not allowed to have my own opinion or a personal experience that are true to me. Iβm just wrong. Honestly, never listen to a women, we are always wrong about love and communication π«‘ trust me, I know.
Donβt worry about that sound, itβs just my mic dropping. 
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