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moods are not chosen, they come on us like waves at the beach
but attitude is a choice
🌊sink or swim
yep, you are either a loser or you are a survivor
winners don't exist
Agree, but I don't think loser is the right word. Victim? Casualty maybe?
"someone who isn't taking responsibility for themselves" is there a short word for that?
the words that come to mind are: sheep, cow, child
I don't know. That's actually a tough question in this context
really not... one question to ask:
is this a human being who has been on the planet long enough to develop a spine?
if they aren't their own person, then they are still a child, and if far beyond the threshold of acceptable for being a child still (that's probably now about 25 years, by my estimation) then no, disregard and move on
I'm still not convinced. There's a lot of successfully self-reliant children out there that are still very much children... sadly. I'm sticking with casualties, in a spirit-death kind of way.
by your definition all psychologically mature adults are casualties of Life
that kinda takes the fun out of it
i prefer to say "you are a child until you find your way to become an adult"
nobody prescribes that path to you but the lucky ones have a guide
"Retain your child-like wonder"
"Don't neglect your inner child"
The end of growth marks the beginning of death... so yeah, maybe it's not fun & maybe it applies to everyone eventually, or maybe the tenacity of the human spirit can burn bright to the bitter end of physical existence.
Also, I keep X-ing nostr:npub16as8gepztj9tvyx6n9y4h3cv3gaytgpl3g32jhcxlj6mcss72uaqjwg2tf out of this conversation as to not blow up his notifications but whatever client you're using keeps reattaching 😬😂
oh, yeah, nostrudel...
most clients attach everyone to the tags... idk what to say, i'll stop following you if you prefer i not notify him in the conversation when he joins it
Oh no... not a big deal. I just notice stuff 😊
I didn't realize most clients did that, good to know.
yeah coracle does it too... coracle lets you unchek them tho
I don't mind lol notify away
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*phew*
I had no clue I could tag someone more than once in the same note until just now 😂