Relay.tools is promising (not self hosted though).
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The source is open GPLv3, self hosting is possible, just need to write more docs and start packaging.. so much to do 😅
So much to do. So little time.
Looking at the milestones from my recent opensats application like, I can do this! 😅 I am thankful that I do have the luxury of time, and I think nostr is my best shot at spending that time with like minded nostriches to help fix the internet mess that advertisement driven companies have caused.
It'll be worth it 🚀 time moves slowly as you approach the speed of light.
An uncle jim distro would be awsome: "host this and let your friends deploy their own relays"