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Behold, I have become a father!

Now the ultimate test of proof of work is upon me. To be a wonderful father to my little princess!

I hope I have done well so far:

I take care of my girl and my wife every day.

I chose one of the best godfathers in the world: nostr:nprofile1qqsz85wewd25r9h9w93zk7xjewzel50t270zq2vntrpu8r6djql3xlcr6nxny

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congrats!

purple crying/witching hour is a thing so don't be discouraged when it happens.

breastfeeding is a co-op game in the beginning. help mom get into comfy positions, be on standby with snacks and water. if she's pumping, you are washing all the parts, every time, no questions asked.

that said, fed is best. don't let anyone make you or your wife feel bad about feeding formula.

skin to skin contact with dad. tummy time on Dad's chest is really good. flat, broad, warm and no boobies distractions.

don't be discouraged if you can't settle or soothe as well as mom can. keep at it.

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Thank you Karo!

I try to do all the work for her! I do the cleaning, bring her water and food. I cook, change diapers and take care of all the household chores.

And I cuddle with my princess all the time when she is not sleeping or eating.