99% chance your issue is primal, just drop that app as they're not focused on interoperability and have poor security #nsex
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I think (maybe) its not on my end. As I said its usually the newer npubs and their relays arent handpicked, just default.
Then it's for sure on nostr:nprofile1qqs9xtvrphl7p8qnua0gk9zusft33lqjkqqr7cwkr6g8wusu0lle8jcpp3mhxue69uhkyunz9e5k7qg4waehxw309ajkgetw9ehx7um5wghxcctwvsqs6amnwvaz7tmwdaejumr0ds2g5zx8 idk when but amethyst was moving to the new implementation of DMS and primal doesn't implement nips anymore, they just use nostr for the npub sign in. They spend their time making advanced search features while ignoring basic security implementations and since they're the easiest app to use frequently noobs start there.