The primal wallet works fine for me, I'm not as stressed about the KYC. But we're supposed to be able to use Nostr Wallet Connect to choose a different lightning wallet if you have one set up. It's a jungle that I haven't explored.

I also notice that the Primal Web app does not have a wallet connection at all, at least not that I can find. So if I want to zap a note, I have to use the mobile app. nostr:npub16c0nh3dnadzqpm76uctf5hqhe2lny344zsmpm6feee9p5rdxaa9q586nvr, what am I missing?