Fair points. What node stack do you recommend?
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Baremetal install on Linux (Ubuntu or Debian) otherwise for the less adventurous, the blitz/bolt stacks are well documented and fully FOSS.
Raspiblitz is the perfect trade-off on a Raspberry Pi. I would strongly recommend it!
I finally settled on raspiblitz.
Started with umbrel then citadel (for the foss argument), then went ronindojo to complete my stealth ecosystem...
Then came nostr and I finally got into lightning, so blitz it is.