A woman I work with was talking about a dream business she wants to open but doesn't have the capital.

I found the idea interesting so asked her for more details about her plan and the funding she needed.

She appeared annoyed and told me the amount. She didn't seem interested in discussing specifics with me and rushed off after a few minutes.

The thing is... I have the capital she needs and I was interested in her idea. I never lead with that though because I want to see how people and companies act before knowing they can get something from me. Our five minute interaction made it clear that I would hate to run a business with her.

And I'm sure she assumed I didn't have the money anyway because she makes more than I do at our jobs. I'm literally at the bottom of the pole (by design). I don't necessarily blame her for viewing me as a waste of time. Most of the people I work with are broke.

And yet I have the capital to make her dream happen right away.

Be careful of the assumptions you make about others and how you treat them. You never know what opportunities you could be throwing away.

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I once helped a neighbor move some stuff from his truck and he offered me $5 πŸ’€ that's when I knew my opsec was elite

Any advice on attending a bitcoin meetup with proper opsec?

Stay home.

Pretty much lol

Yeah, my local meetup general location doxxed me. Thankfully they are good about no pictures and most people use nyms even in person. Less than 5 people can tie this nym directly to my government name as far as I know but still. Every slip is a one way move.

I'll probably disappear into a new nym someday. This wasn't my first why assume it will be my last?

Lol Fucking right dude.

But mine could be a lot better. Even posting this story is bad opsec. I try to strike a good balance.

Just sent you 10 sats. Get something nice for yourself son.

Cautionary tale. Solid lesson.

I've asked people to buy their companies before to judge their reactions. More personal and empathetic and I make it sound, but it's been quite interesting. Ive found two responses.

I ask them how much they think their company or idea is worth (or what it would take to get started). They respond with:

1. WAY over estimate how much it's worth once they find out you have the capital to purchase it from them

2. Way underestimate it and present some sort of shame and withdraw. Like it's a failure, they underestimate the idea, or maybe feel bad because they found I had more desire for financial risk than they assumed?

Option 1 is usually the case for those in established businesses they aren't commited to. 2 is usually those who seem to care about their work and have less understanding of business.

And then you have the fanatics, like me.

I'm this way about my extra cold going to the moon stack, but I still spend money. Money is useless without goods and services anyway.

I meant, I'm not selling my shares. πŸ˜‚

Fuck the money. This is gonna be my legacy.

^

is Matt your real name or is that opsec?

Good question. I worked with a guy named Brian once who insisted he be called Matt. Matt or Matthew wasn't a part of his real name. He said he'd just always been a Matt.

I face the opposite problem. I used to be a professional investor, so founders know you have the money.

Founders assumed I didn't understand or didn't care about money, so asked for unrealistic amounts of investment and seemed perturbed when I ran the numbers with them to show them they couldn't afford it.

The funniest example was this one:

https://mikehardcastle.com/2016/01/13/the-founders-a-test-of-common-sense/

It's wierd how the people who earn the most money often don't have much of it because they keep adding more stuff to their strategic future trash reserve.

🀣 strategic trash reserve

A+ term.

Lol. Thanks.