Usually the logs should give some clue? Why don't you try to setup a full vm in proxmox? The container stuff can be overwhelming for a beginner sometimes...
I’m running haven and wot relays by nostr:npub1utx00neqgqln72j22kej3ux7803c2k986henvvha4thuwfkper4s7r50e8. They were running flawlessly on a VPS, until the VPS started failing. So, I’m clearly doing something wrong within Proxmox, but I cannot find anything obvious.
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Good advice. I was trying to keep it lean, but I’ll test a VM. Thanks.
Not 100% sure but don’t see how container vs full VM would make any difference here. I would say more likely check resource allocation on the container is adequate and processes are not getting killed due to insufficient resources or occasional spikes in usage.