Scenario: you’re single with no family. You meet a 25 year old unvaccinated beautiful girl that says “taxation is theft, end the feed, stay humble and stacks sats, and seed oils are poison.”
You’re vibing and she says I’ve never met someone like you before. Then she says here you NEED to listen to this and hands you these headphones. What are you doing?
Unplug the headphones and listen
She says no we can’t let anyone else hear it 😂
Never too early to start saying No to a girl. They need to hear it and not be shocked by it
Candor is much better received and later understood, when it comes out from the start. If she can't handle the truth, the sooner you both understand that, the less time you will both waste.
I agree with this but women tend to cut you off early on if they sense any discomfort. It’s a survival instinct. So waiting to say those difficult things is more beneficial.
And a very reasonable one at that. We're mammals. I'm not saying rage any time you don't agree. But no one, man or woman, should ignore their own interest and needs for the benefit of the other. I simply mean that compromise goes both ways. And lots of women today only see it as one direction. It's why my brother is dealing with divorce right now.
I agree. A lot of beautiful have never been told no before in their lives.
Why do I feel like fiat world has something to do with that 😆 It's true in my experience but we all have to face facts eventually. It seems like it just happens earlier for men. Dads are harsh on their sons, bosses are hard on apprentices. We have to build ground up more often than women (and to just beat the shit out of being clear) in most cases.
I don’t think it’s fiat tbh. Not this time surprisingly. I’m sure fiat doesn’t help, but I think that men struggle to say what they should to beautiful women because they wanna sleep with them lol
Valid. Don't let me eat my own bullshit. Animal instincts are definitely on the board in that conversation too.
Clean them and listen 👂 or plug in my own if I have them!
She takes offense and says you know what forget it then leaves 😂
"You've got the big picture right, but I wouldn't stick those in my ears if you paid me, boo, that is embarrassing."
Are you single?
Nope. This is exactly how I approached this when we met. Took a second but she understands that I have dealt with a lot of comfort turned toxic, just like she has. Of course I'm not intentionally assholish to her, I am less aggressive about it now, but I will certainly speak my mind just like she does now.
My view is if you can't rely on your partner for honest input, you're not going to be happy. Again, within agreeable terms, of course.
There are a lot of provisios there…no way I’m stickin those in my ears… personal hygiene is important… I’m givin her Mcd’s or node’s contact info😂🫡
😂
God damn! I’ve seen some nasty headphones a couple times. This hits home 🤢
Just a little harmless ear wax no big deal 
You're really coming off the top rope with that Sophie's choice.
Best toilet laugh I’ve had in a while.
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Tell that I need to hear whatever it is from her mouth directly
She says no I can’t explain it the same way it’ll only take a minute just listen. Then she looks at you like this 😂
If I really really really really really liked him, and saw a future with him, I’d look him deep in his eyes, touch his face and say ‘darling, you are beautiful just the way you are, but we’re cleaning your ears cos I can’t have my man walking around with a whole bar of toffee in there. How are you meant to hear all this sexy poetry I wrote for you? I got your back, dw’ and kiss his forehead so he knows I’m not grossed out by him.
Kissing a total stranger and calling him your man is wild. You fall in love too fast 😂
Ah my bad I didn’t realise you meant stranger 🤣 I didn’t read it properly - though in my defence, I live in London, we don’t do this type of thing with someone we don’t know really well. We keep our phones hidden cos they’ll get nicked (these headphones would be safe though…). We take a while to warm up to strangers, so this would be seen as a bit forward. I’d be very suspicious of a guy trying to get so close to me so quickly. 100% think he was a serial killer. Very very cautious here.
You’re such a hopeless romantic 😅
I am I swear 😂🫂 just rarely with strangers who try to put wax covered headphones in my ears. Probably trying to completely block sound so their friend waiting around the corner can steal my bag 👀. I was thinking and maybe I’m being too cautious cos it does depend on a bunch of factors like whether we meet at school, work, have mutual friends, met at a pub/bar, then it wouldn’t be as sus to strike up conversation - I still think the earphone thing is wild though. I can’t think of a single person I know that would say yes 🥹
nostr:npub16pcgz3fct9znjcv37sn7zdrtk4xgjsgla7rm6dz82y9syashr7mq7nafu7 What say you?
Oh my goodness🤮. Well, erm, yes.
I'd accept the offer, drop the pods on the floor then give them the most vigorous wipe on my jeans while picking them up, I think that's just about as good as the situation can be recovered😬😎😂.
That’s incredibly smooth I never thought of that 😂😂😂
Hopefully you’re not wearing a white shirt
I dunno, for me you gotta earn that type of friendship where I’m willing to pop those in my ears 🙈 but eye reply’s solution is incredibly kind 🫂
Absolutely correct😬.
🤣😂 this is only partly true for me though, cos once you get to know your local shopkeepers in London, we will say hello and chat. Also I say hello to people I’ve met and people I grew up with while walking, but not strangers cos have to be careful 👀
I like it though cos you know that the friendships that take time mean something and it’s not just surface level, where I think quick shallow friendships are odd to me 🥹 time is so scarce I don’t want to constantly spend it on surface level things, which sounds a little cold, I admit 😭
I ask her to share the link and I listen on my phone with my airpods
She says it’s not a link and she doesn’t have a way to share it with you without breaking her privacy lol
Tell her damn girl these are nasty clean them and your ears. Then she gets mad and leaves, you dodge a bullet because she was just telling you what she knew you wanted her to say and she'd have been psycho crazy and you'd be stuck with her because she tells you what you want to hear and you know she'll change eventually...
Orrrrrr she's like ew you're right, hang on and wipes them off and you both laugh and live happily ever after. There is no in between on these things 🤣🤣🤣
What if she dies of embarrassment and stumbles away without giving you her number 😂
You chase her down if it's meant to be 🤣🤣
You know damn well that doesn’t work and will make her horrified to ever see you again 😂
