Are you setting a deadline on love ?
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No. A goal is not a deadline.
As part of that goal, it means I have to do a lot of work on myself in order to be enticing enough to a woman to consider anything of this sort.
I understand the by the next presidential election was more why i said deadline not the goal on its own.
Self improvement is always a good thing, hope you wont pressure yourself too much where it becomes a negative
Yeah, that's the thing, right? You're a bit picky (not that that is a bad thing, but it limits your selection), which means you're aiming for women who are in a position to be REALLY picky.
The marriage market is anything, but even and balanced, right now.
And, if she's young-ish, Christian, pretty, and pleasant you'll probably have to get past her dad. Dads are a tough crowd.