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It’s funny how many folks in this world think they’re on some profound next level shit because they have kids.

It’s a bit boring.

By all means focus on being a good parent but have some basic understanding that not everyone is in the same situation.

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I think the point should be to create something and let each person decide what that creation will be. For some, it’s life🤷‍♀️

I create chaos and mayhem and I’m happy with that.

We need that 🫂

All men are called to be fathers and all women are called to be mothers. It's an aspect of their soul that needs to be put to use, for their own sake. I guess being Catholic gives me some ambivalence about that use always being biological reproduction.

Who are you called to mother? That's really the big question, for every woman.

Do you think, maybe, Nostr has been giving you opportunities to mother?

That’s kind of my thinking. Maybe that’s why I adopted 3 dogs 😂

I am a godmother and an “aunt” so for now, I feel fulfilled in that way

My nephews are getting all my energy, lately.

And my devs. They say I'm like a Mother Hen, sometimes. 😅

I think it can both be true: some profound next level shit and not everyone is in the same situation.

I also don't have everything other people have, or I don't have it in the same way. That doesn't mean I can't be satisfied with my life.

Contentment is a choice we make.

I appreciate it’s a wonderful life changing event and that’s amazing. I also recognise that more particularly women but also men can feel a sense of shame for not having kids.

I thought humanity had got past that but in recent times I’ve noticed this more, I’ve seen a number of pretty crass takes.

Yeah nature can be cruel etc. doesn’t mean we have to be.

I think we have to be careful to not be so afraid of making minorities feel bad, that we fail to speak clearly to the majority.

I don't think Nature is cruel. People are not meant to be identical and everyone deals the hand they are dealt.

Maybe you don’t think nature is cruel but others have directly stated the opposite.

People are free to say what they want, some of the discussion about people without children is pretty crass.

It’s all moot anyway, even if Big Bitcoin Account has 20 kids, it’ll barely make an impact on North American birth rates.

If people want advice on fucking it’s probably best to check folks from Central Africa.