How to get what you want from a man 🤔

Try telling him what you want him to do, without the story. Ask straight questions, and give straight answers.

I struggle with the latter, but I’m also a verbal processor and sometimes I don’t know what I want, so when my husband asks me a question, I need to verbally figure out what I want, before I can give him the straight answer. We made a deal where I try my best to let him know if I’m processing, so he knows how to listen.