I'm not taking it personally. Why would I? 🤷🏻‍♂️ I just find it odd that this expectation exists with this protocol, but not the others.

If you expect Nostr to only be a social media tool, then I can see the expectation. Original drafts always have the potential to remain on the network though. You can mitigate that, but not prevent it entirely...just like a sent email.