GM—first coffee, then discussions…

This might be a controversial topic, but it’s how I feel—

Do you think kids should get awards for everything they do? For example, schools hold quarterly awards ceremonies for grades, and some sports leagues hand out medals after every game, plus a trophy at the end of the season—even if the team didn’t win a single game.

Personally, I think school awards should happen once at the end of the year, based on overall performance. When I was a kid, they just sent home a paper saying “Honor Roll” or whatever—there wasn’t a whole ceremony that required parents to miss work.

And sports? Don’t even get me started. I don’t believe in medals and trophies if the team didn’t win—yes, even for little kids. They don’t even know what a medal or trophy is until you start handing them out.

Cheer them on, support them, love on them! But they don’t need a participation trophy.

Imagine if NFL players got a medal after every game or if every team got a Super Bowl ring. That’s not how it works at the professional level—so what exactly are we teaching our kids?

I don’t usually rant here, but I thought this was a good topic to throw out there. Curious what you think!

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when we no longer award winners, we get a land of losers

You can give awards to the winners but not everyone is a winner — that’s just reality.

it’s funny how we keep trying to reject nature and shelter ourselves from the volatility of reality

I agree! Life isn’t predictable, and trying to shield our kids from the ups and downs isn’t helping them grow. We need to embrace the challenges, learn to deal with them, and learn from them—that’s what makes us stronger.

Those participation trophies are psychological sabotage of children- confusing them about respect, effort, competition, even Justice.

Everybody wins is Marxism- poison!

I think it sets kids up to think they should get rewarded for everything they do and that’s just not how life works.

Just about everything a kid has should be earned. And if its not earned, it is a gift and it should be very clear that it was a gift.