You could've just saved time, and call me an incel, lol.
This isn't my first debate but I will respect that you didn't automatically resort to a clear Ad Hominem.
I am fully aware of my faults, and problems but at this point but I don't really care.
Most people in my age group aren't dating much nowadays either.
I'm used to it, and in the end it's pointless.
If I am so fortunate to find a good wife, great. if not then whatever.
I wasn't calling you an incel, or in any way employing ad hominens. I'm responding to inconsistencies in your arguments, and making suppositional remarks based on my experience with people I've encountered who make the same or similar arguments as you on this subject. I don't think there's anything wrong with you. I just think you're misguided on this subject, and engaging in self-deception. I could be wrong. I don't think myself to be infallible. But the facts as I see them fit my hypothesis. One thing I have no doubt about is that it's absolutely possible for you to have a successful dating life if you wanted it. And if you think that to be an unachievable goal, I think that's another self-deception. I also know that your current views on the subject, and willingness to express them to women, are a self-imposed barrier to any possible success you could have if you tried.
It's complex for me.
Factors of socio-economics, identity problems, social difficulties, fringe, and niche beliefs, culture, etc.
I don't really find the purpose in doing stuff much these days anymore.
I've got way more on my mind that I am not in the position to really engage with a romantic partner at the current moment.
