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I have been trying to understand normies mindsets. My neighbour in Ventnor was about to loose his home. He was a tenant and the landlord had to sell the place to pay for his mother’s care.

My neighbour was a former fireman and had also owned a kitchen fitting company, but a serious accident at work during a fire had left him unable to work any physical job. His marriage had broken up, so he found himself renting the home next to mine, funded, in most part, by the government.

I had a lightning bolt of philanthropy and so decided to buy the place and give my neighbour a secure home for life. I also spent a lot of time explaining Bitcoin, hoping that it would help him generate a secure future for him and his adult daughter.

About a year ago, his Father died and he discovered nearly £5K of cash in his safe. This was great, as I believed it would give him one or two years of additional financial support and allow him to invest some, even if it was in more traditional investments. I tried not to preach too heavily about Bitcoin for fear of being thought a scam.

To my dismay, the next time I visited him, I sat in his living room in my very best Primark jeans and t-shirt while he showed me his brand new designer coat and sunglasses and describing the 5 star slap up dinner he had paid for his friends to have at the local posh hotel.

In short, within 3 months, he had spent the lot on flash clothes and fancy dinners. A couple of months later, he would be asking me for a loan.

I am re-thinking philanthropy. I am trying to understand the world I don’t inhabit.

What an idiot. ! Classic short term mindset. Sell the house and buy him a cardboard box

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We’re all ending up in a wooden box eventually 😂

Seriously though, I don’t understand it. If I had little money and got £5K I’d maximise the shit out of it. I’d probably use half to improve my quality of life and half to try and improve my future prospects by what ever method.

Or perhaps offer some to you as a token payment on the house you let him live in for free 🤷‍♂️

Oh no, not free, I charge him rent. I'm not that much of a philanthropist 😂

Also the government pay the rent indirectly.

Ironically, I had toyed with the idea of giving him his home when BTC hit a specific price point. Ironically that price point was $100K.

That won't be happening, not least because he would probably sell it, rent a new place with government funding and waste the lot on long boozy beach lunches and Caribbean Cruises 😂

Sound familiar 🤔😂

Well phew ! But he is an idiot for blowing that cash as he’s unable to work

I know!

He's physically limited, but not mentally.

He could work from home in an admin job if he wanted, like a call centre worker, working from home.

I get bored easily with people like this.

People are on their own journey. You stepped in and became part of his journey but ultimately it’s his journey. Sounds like you need to back off and let him just do what he wants. As long as you get the rent all is well

Oh, we’re friends and will remain so.

He’ll never know what influence he’s had on my future plans.

I’m trying to understand the whole world, which I will fail to do, but the journey is fascinating.