If we rely on #porn to masterbate, we are killing our creativity and ability to visualize.
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Porn is more addicting than a lot of drugs and it’s still seen as relatively harmless
Definitely. And it drains our life force. I think it needs to be talked about. Not to shame. Just to educate.
Ideally not jerking off at all, man how much you can accomplish then... But, jerking off is addictive, ideally done before going to sleep, if need be. During sleep, not as much life force is needed. As during the day when you are supposed to conquer new women and gold!
Best to have a hot wife that you can fuck often, or at least visualize her when you jerk off.
If you are not visualizing you wife and watching porn only then it is a problem.
The reduction of life force is a defence for wives who don't want cheating husbands. Nature has made I like this, they offer sex and get faithful husbands, because they have no force to go out to also look for new ladies to fuck.
I feel like I have found my person. This is the first time I have been with someone that is my fantasy. It's good feeling. I don't believe masterbation is inherently wrong or bad, but how I do it and with what frequency has a big impact on me. Ideally I would never do it but sometimes it does feel like a helpful tool.
it's far worse. it can distort your mind—and your perception of women.
Totally. 💯
I was lucky as a kid. My mom found my stash. She said it's normal to masterbate. But please know, this isn't real. Even with that I have had it twist my perceptions a lot at times. No good. And that was a soft core magazine. I can only imagine what people may go through now.
strangely, i didn't have an interest it when i was young—it was when i got a bit older that the urge to "explore" manifested. the addictiveness is insane, but like any addiction, it's used to fill a black hole inside yourself. i was lucky to be able to navigate my way out...