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Men often can't tell if you're trying to flirt with them. Have to practically hold up a flashing sign
"Do you like me? Yes/No"
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Yeah in my experience the error was in the “friendly” direction. Not rapey at all. My mother swore all the way through high school that girls were flirting with me and would even point out who, and I was 💯 convinced they were not interested.
I remained single until I turned 20.
Yeah, feels like trying to flirt with a wall.
That's why women get desperate and tart up, but that's very diffuse. I understand the urge, tho.
The female frustration. Is real.
Sorry. We’re stupid cave men who figured out how to make magic with sand.
If it makes you feel any better, we get just as frustrated - trying to be a nice guy and not bother women who aren’t interested in us often means just being alone, since we think none of them are.
My wife came and snatched me up. I’m a rescue.
Hypothesis: women are just terrible at sending signals. 🤔😅
They've known us for tens of thousands of years, they should know by now to just tell us when they want to have sex.
We can't really comprehend that.
And we only want to have sex with him if he really likes us, tho. We want to know if he LIKES us.
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Why not do that? It would certainly eliminate the guess work.
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That's me.
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