It’s not just you. It’s everyone on Nostr. Before my dad died, I was on here all the time and quick to respond, but after I’ve kind of been in and out. When I don’t go on nostr for a day or two, notifications can kind of pile up and it’s hard to get back to everyone because I’ve not been dedicating as much time to Nostr lately. Not because I don’t like Nostr and interacting with people, but because I’ve been doing more stuff in real life like visiting family and going back to yoga and what not. I hope you don’t take any of my lack of responses personally🫂 I hope to be more consistent on here in the future
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However, after the past several reactions and memes that I made to your posts the interactions and responses stopped all together.
While I am not as naive, or emotionally needy as to falsely believe that I deserve any attention from you. I am not accustomed to putting so much effort into trying to develop a positive acquaintanceship only to be ghosted by someone I think so highly of.
This is not a letter of demanding attention. Seeking any explanations for lack of responses. Nor anything as so pathetic as to believe I even should get a response from you for this post too. This is simply me trying to figure out how many shits and amount of effort I should I give in the future.
Taking the time out for long detailed responses to posts with a genuine interest in one's overall well being while trying to help someone I respect. Is not something that requires minimal effort and it is not something I do for just anyone. As a matter of fact I am quite lazy and casual in that department 95% of the time. I really don't like putting that much thought, time, and effort into responding to random people on the internet. They have to be Legendary enough to actually deserve it.
I have not a problem whatsoever never putting the level of thought and care that I have in the past for interacting with you on a very strictly platonic acquaintanceship level from here moving forward. However, I am writing you this sincere post now to discover if I should progress forward with this 0 shits given intention, or if me giving any shits in the future is desired and/or requested by you.
Whether I hear from you, you tell me to wander off and play a rousing game of go fuck myself, or something else entirely.
Hope your life is good.
Take care, stay awesome, and have a wonderful day.
Sincerely,
The Legendary Man
Discussion
I was not taking the lack of responses personally. More along the lines of you are on a very short list of people whose personal well being I actually give a shit about. I enjoy the content you create and the interactions we have had over the past several months on Nostr. You are good people. Interactions with persons of your caliber are in rare supply in my life.
When I made genuine attempts to help improve the quality of life for you and your husband with heartfelt advice during a challenging and potentially rewarding time. It was like running a marathon, finishing it, but no one was there to greet you at the finish line, because everyone went home already.
Honestly I thought I had offended you, hit a nerve, or something else. Then I was ghosted. Which is not something I am used to have happen to me.
I am just glad you responded and you were just out there living your life to the fullest. Can't be mad at that. Especially after all you have been through over the past 4 months. I will treat you like how I treat my globe trotting sibling from now on. Where I regularly make attempts to contact them and be sincere, but not get offended when they don't get back to me right away, because I know they are busy travelling the world.
Doesn't mean I wont give any more, or less shits about you. I will just have to be more selective when is the appropriate time and how much energy is required to give said shits. As to not exhaust myself writing a marathon of TLDR posts lol. Even though I am more than happy to do it, because you and your husband deserve happiness. Nothing would make me more happy to hear that one day you both moved out of the city. Started your own farm and popped out a couple kids, because of some of the sound advice I have shared with you to help get you both in a better place in life. That was my true motivation.
Now that the shit show has ended and the air has been cleansed of that lingering smell between us. I hope you are doing well. Stay amazing and hope to hear from you again soon.
GN