I'm already (automatically) connected to 13 other relays in addition to my own right now, including one that I paid for. Does that mean none of them are storing my data?
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some of them are, some of them are not
you can try and reach the relay operators to ask
but it's not a problem for visibility rly, i think most only delete after a certain period.. months i assume
you have your own data backed up w your relay is what counts
shouldn't be a problem for visibility
you should def not upload media with the nip95 verified thing tho, you'll reach only amethysts users with that and there's a lot of damus users here too