My parents put in a deliberate effort for us to build connections with our cousins as kids. Now as adults those who I have a genuine friendship with remain in contact and those who were just part of the family time have drifted away. I'm ok with this. Fewer but deeper connections feels very wholesome.
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Yeah same here. It feels kind of weird, but maybe it will get better. Starting my own family now (have 1 son), so I’ll probably care a little less with some people drifting away.